Explore how applying reason and clarity to decision-making can lead to better outcomes—whether in your personal life or finances.
Introduction
That wicked woman. Stingy person.
Oga, why you no wan make others chop?
Familiar phrases, right? If you’re Nigerian, you’ve probably heard these words—and more colorful ones—spoken in jest or anger. In fact, we’re no strangers to casting judgments in our communities. This tendency is what I call “pin to the stake” judgment. We single out someone, accuse them of wrongdoing, and quickly condemn them without considering the full picture. Whether it’s a social media post or a gossip session at the corner shop, these judgments are often swift, harsh, and emotional.
The problem with this approach? It doesn’t allow us to see beyond the surface. We fail to ask the crucial questions: Why did this happen? What’s the context? Could there be another side to the story?
This emotional lens is often applied in ways that affect not just our social interactions, but our financial decisions too. We tend to rush to conclusions, driven by emotions and impulses—particularly when it comes to money. Just like with moral judgments, we sometimes let feelings cloud our better judgment when managing our finances.
The ‘Pin to the Stake’ Judgment: A Trap We Fall Into Daily
Take a walk with me through a familiar biblical story—the woman caught in adultery. The crowd that witnessed the act was ready to stone her to death, crying out:
“We don catch am!”
“Ashawo!”
“Kill am! Stone am! Bury am alive!”
It’s easy to see why emotions ran high. But here’s the catch: The story never mentions where the man who was involved in the act is. Could a woman really be caught “in the very act” of adultery alone?
The crowd’s outcry was based on emotional outrage, not logic. And when we make decisions based on unchecked emotions, we often make mistakes—whether it’s passing judgment on someone or choosing the wrong financial option.
From Emotional Judgment to Rational Decision-Making
The truth is, it’s easy to fall into the trap of seeing things in black and white when our emotions are involved. It’s a reflex we all share, whether in social interactions or in managing our money. However, when we apply reason and logic, we begin to see the full picture, with its varying shades of grey. And that’s where real wisdom lies.
At GRANTS MFB, we encourage our clients to take a step back and look at the bigger picture—whether it’s making decisions about investments, loans, or savings. Emotions may drive us, but logic should guide us. Financial decisions should be made based on clear facts, not fleeting feelings.
Making Smarter Financial Decisions with GRANTS MFB
Just like we ask, “Where is the man?” in situations of moral judgment, we ask the right questions when it comes to your finances. Instead of making decisions based on gut feelings or social pressures, we help you cut through the noise of emotions and focus on what really matters.
Whether it’s saving for school fees, a house deposit, or planning for your japa goals, we’ll guide you to the best financial solutions. Our team at GRANTS MFB works with you to:
• Prioritize your goals based on logic and facts, not emotions.
• Analyze your financial situation by looking at your bank statements, payslips, and business plans.
• Identify the best savings and investment options that align with your long-term vision.
Need aggressive investments with high yields? We’ve got you. Looking for loan services with reasonable repayment plans? We’re here for that too.
By helping you make decisions that are both rational and informed, we empower you to take control of your financial future with confidence.
Final Thoughts: Prioritize Logic Over Emotion
So next time you find yourself judging someone or making an emotional financial decision, pause for a moment. Ask yourself: Is this the full picture? Where is the man? When you take the time to think things through, you’ll find that the answers often lie in a balanced, logical perspective.
At GRANTS MFB, we believe in helping you focus on what truly matters, so you can make decisions that will pay off in the long run. Don’t let emotions cloud your judgment—whether it’s in your social life or financial future.
Ready to make smarter, more informed decisions with GRANTS MFB? Let’s talk.
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